5 Factors That Affect Your Wedding Venue Budget

Wedding venues come in all shapes and sizes but one thing they usually have in common, is a cost. For most people looking to host a celebration, booking a venue (or venues) is one of the first tasks but can also be the biggest part of your budget. Each venue is entirely unique in what they offer, include and will permit.

It's important to understand that the budget for your wedding venue is not as simple as a single number at the bottom of a single contract.

Firstly, how many venues will you need to book? Will your ceremony site be the same as your reception?

In order to secure a venue, you must chose a date. Since many vendors will have availability and/or pricing that reflects specific date(s), location(s) and services, the venue -and therefore the date- are essential first steps!

I have plenty of tips about booking wedding venues, but here I’m going to talk specifically about the budget. I broke it down into 5 major fees that you need to consider for each space.

Venue Rental Fee

This is the cost to secure the physical space that you’ll be hosting your wedding. This fee will fall between $0 (more on that later) to about $12,500+tax.

It’s important to know exactly what is -and is not- included in your venue rental fee. Some questions to ask the venue coordinator: 

  • What rooms are included? Suites, lounge areas, cocktail area, coatroom, bathrooms, prep space for catering, etc.

  • Are there additional fees to host the ceremony on-site?

  • Are there any spaces on-site that you do not have access to, or limited access?

  • What furniture is included? Tables, chairs, linens, couches, etc. Do they have an exclusive rental company that they work with?

  • Security

Alcohol

Most venues have one of the following two alcohol service structures. 

The venue supplies alcohol and charges you on either an open bar hourly rate or based on consumption (prices should be available for you to review). With this option many spaces will also allow you to upgrade to a premium bar rail should you choose.
* Remember that with an open bar you’re paying a flat fee whether the guests drink or not.

In this case, the venue will also provide soft drinks, juice (orange juice, cranberry), ice, etc.

 OR

You will need to purchase a Special Occasions Permit (SOP) and purchase/bring your own alcohol. Most of the time this option is more cost-effective however you will be responsible for purchasing, storing, transporting and returning all of the alcohol.

Additionally, you may be asked to provide the other bar elements (soft drinks, juice, lemons/limes, ice, etc)

Catering & Food

Some venues will supply food/catering and some will require you to book a caterer/handle your own food.  In addition to plate costs, don’t forget to include tax and gratuity. 

The perks of bringing in your own caterer is that you typically have more options. Some venues may charge you a landmark fee, which is a percentage of your catering invoice that is paid to the venue for operating in that space (typically between 10-20%).
An outside caterer will also likely quote for food and labour separately. They may also assist with event rentals (tables, chairs, glassware, flateware, etc).

If the venue is handling the food themselves, they may require you to meet a minimum spend (often calculated before labour, tax and gratuity). This is why I caution against booking spaces that are much too big for your guest count. Venues that provide food in-house will usually have their own furniture and tableware.

There are -still- a handful of venues that only charge a minimum spend and not a venue fee, but these are generally few and far between. Some venues will charge a venue fee and also have a minimum spend!

Event rentals & Decor

Once you know what the venue includes, you may need to fill in any gaps in your rental needs. This category can be a bit tricky. Tables, chairs and linens are a bit more straightforward but things like ovens, water jugs and garbage cans might not have crossed your mind.

Decor can really impact how a space looks and some spaces will “need” more than others. Bringing in giant floral arches and gorgeous hanging chandeliers are beautiful but each comes with their own set of costs. Keep in mind also that flowers have seen an increase of about 25% from pre-covid.

Miscellaneous costs

While I’m sure I could make this list a mile long, some of the other miscellaneous costs include a sound system/speakers, parking and photography permits, to name a few.

In my experience most weddings exceed the couple's initial budget. Often, this is due to a slew of costs that are overlooked in the early phases of wedding budgeting. I would strongly recommend having a buffer in your budget for unexpected and miscellaneous costs.

A wedding planner will help to guide you through all the details to help ensure that you are choosing the best venue based on your priorities, style, size and of course, budget.
Whether we’ve been working together since the beginning of your planning process or Month-of Coordination was a better fit, my job on the wedding day is to act as a lease between your wedding venue and your contract/expectations/etc.

Remember that, while the venue is the one of the first and sometimes the most important decisions you'll make during the planning process, your wedding day will be about so much more. It's the opportunity to marry your love and celebrate with your closest friends and family, and that's pretty incredible!

Always keep the main goal of planning in mind.

Check out our services so you can enjoy a smooth wedding day!
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Have questions? Send me an email amanda@openskyweddings.com

Wedding contracts...they matter

Photography by @daringwanderer
Celebrating at @gladstonehotel

You've spent hours researching vendors, emailed back and forth, maybe jumped on a call, or met them for coffee! It's an exciting time to be crossing to-dos off your list.

But wait! One more important step before you put them into your phone as 'Amanda - Wedding Planner,' which is signing a contract. 

A contract is a written and signed agreement between you and the hiring vendor. This contract should outline and clarify the roles and responsibilities of both yourselves and the vendor and answer any "what if" questions you might have. It's important to remember that the contract protects both parties. 


What Should a Wedding Contract Cover

  1. Name and contact information of both the couple and the vendor

  2. Itemized list of products or services, including dates, times, and locations

  3. Additional conditions of the contract including photography, upgrades, travel, etc.

  4. Policy in the case of cancellation, postponement, changes, and refunds

  5. Fees

  6. Payment schedule - Outlines when payments are due and how to pay them 

  7. Signatures from both parties

It may seem like a simple list, but these can be pages and pages long, especially when it comes to some of your larger vendors, such as your venue, catering, etc.

Photography by @abritandablonde
Celebrating at @beamerfallsmanor

Sign off on the Details

You MUST understand what you are signing because your signature legally binds you to what you've agreed to. Be sure to ask questions if you have them. If you've agreed, get it in writing! This also applies to things like discounts and promotions.

Reviewing a contract is the best time to ask any questions you might have. This is often a more formal process and ensures you and the vendor are on the same page.  

Your memory might be great, but nothing is binding about this. 

Did the florist say they would pick up the rentals at the end of the night? Did your photographer tell you when you should expect your photos after your wedding? Is everything you discussed in this contract?

Do you know the vendor and don't think anything will go wrong? It sounds too formal? You don't want to seem like a bother.  Without a contract, there are too many assumptions being made.

Unfortunately, things don't always go as planned. And should that happen, this is a document outlining what you both agreed to.

Photography by @misstraceynolan
Celebrating at @berkeleyevents

Planning

You are signing this contract often well before your wedding date, so be sure to review these during the planning process. 

If you need to make changes to one of your contracts, check-in with your vendor. Any changes agreed upon should be updated on the contract. 

Family/friend "vendors"

It's always exciting when a couple tells me that a friend or family member will step in as a vendor. Bringing them into your wedding team can add a personal touch to the day. It can be tempting to skip the contract stage because it can sometimes feel formal or uncomfortable to have a contract with someone you've known since college.

Your relationship doesn't answer the who, what, where, when, and whys, and it definitely won't stand up in court (hopefully, you don't get that far).

Photography by @jennifervansonphoto
Celebrating at @wbgolfclub

Covid Wedding Contracts

Planning a wedding during the pandemic has undoubtedly made things difficult. Now more than ever, contracts are crucial.

Covid-19 shook the wedding industry these last two years. Vendors and venues were forced to adapt, not really knowing how long adjustments would need to be made. 

You can expect to see covid clauses in any contract you sign moving forward. Conditions based on postponing or rescheduling are the most common. 

If you don't listen to anything else, I wrote here, just be sure you have a clear paper trail! 


5 Essential Elements Every Wedding Requires

Photography by Danielle Meredith Photography Celebrating at F’Amelia, Toronto

Photography by Danielle Meredith Photography
Celebrating at F’Amelia, Toronto

Planning a wedding is stressful. With so many people and opinions to consider, it can get really overwhelming. 

Last week I spoke with Kate from The Course for Brides on her Real Talk with Brides live on Instagram. It was so much fun to speak to her about my own wedding experience and what pressures exist around wedding planning for other couples.

When you’re stressed out, I want you to remember there are 5 things you need to have to get married, the rest is a choice. 

This isn’t something you’ll often see a wedding planner say, but it’s just the truth. 

Here are the 5 essential elements every wedding requires!

1.      Yourselves

2.      Marriage License 

3.      Licensed Officiant

4.      2 Witnesses (over the age of 18)

5.      A pen

 But wait? Is it really this simple? Honestly, yes.

This simplicity doesn’t make the details unimportant. It’s just a reminder about why you’re doing this. 

The purpose of your wedding is to marry the person that you wish to spend your life or at least the foreseeable future with. Marriage is the purpose, everything else is celebration! Everything from invitations to the bridesmaids shoe colour is the celebration. 

So take a moment, and breathe!

Photography by Ikonica Officiant Lori Lytle Celebrating at Berkeley Church

Photography by Ikonica
Officiant Lori Lytle
Celebrating at Berkeley Church

10 Tips for Great Wedding Speeches

Love them or not, speeches play an important role in a wedding of any size.

As the couple getting married…

  1. Give your speaker(s) at least 2 months notice, if possible.

  2. Ask the guest/parent/friend/sibling if they would like to speak.
    Keep in mind that some people are not comfortable public speaking no matter how much you mean to them.

  3. Share this blog with your speakers!

Photography by A Brit and a Blonde Florals by Lena’s Floral Design Tent and rentals by Special Event Rentals

Photography by A Brit and a Blonde
Florals by Lena’s Floral Design
Tent and rentals by Special Event Rentals

Open Mic Speeches

*WARNING* I’m not saying you shouldn’t have an open mic for speeches, however you must consider the crowd and weigh out the risks and possible consequences. Ultimately, you have no control over what that person might say and how clear their judgement might be. An open mic speech hasn't been thoughtfully prepared and the guest will not have read this article to have learned all these super tips!

And if you can rap your speech while your brother beatboxes, you absolutely should! #crushedit #impressed  Photography by Gerard Devine Celebrating at Eglinton Grand

And if you can rap your speech while your brother beatboxes, you absolutely should! #crushedit #impressed

Photography by Gerard Devine
Celebrating at Eglinton Grand

Speech Writing

  1. Keep speeches to a maximum of 5 minutes long. My experience suggests keeping it to 2-3 minutes.

  2. If you are the first one to speak on your “side”, take a moment to welcome and thank the other partner’s family and friends

  3. Do not mention ex’s or past relationships

  4. This is not the time to talk about that awkward thing that happened at prom 17 years ago!

  5. Stick to one or two inside jokes

  6. Speak from your heart

  7. Share your speech with the wedding planner so they can have a back-up copy!

They’ve come such a long way!  Photography by Steve Sager Celebrating at District 28

They’ve come such a long way!
Photography by Steve Sager
Celebrating at District 28

Times Like These Video

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What started as a quick conversation at an open house developed into this incredible collection of work. Every single time I watch this, I get all the feels all over again. We wanted to share a story and I hope that you enjoy it as much as we do.

I think it is so important in such a busy industry to find your people. And thankfully, I found some of mine. This was the best team I could have imagined!

Brent Miller LIVE: The energy, the stoke & the spirit behind this work. I couldn't imagine building this with anyone else.

twenty5films: Took on an incredible challenge and absolutely nailed  it!

Gillian Foster Photography: This was my first time working with Gillian and it will definitely not be my last!

Carley Artistry: Carley always brings a ton of fun everytime we work together and her hair and makeup work is beautiful!

THORNfloral: Victoria continues to amaze and inspire me.

Louisa Labarbera Jewellery: Louisa is my go-to for all my bridal and non-bridal jewellery needs.

Jam Factory: One of my favourite Toronto spaces. Some of this has to do with the rustic feel and exposed beams but also, Shannon and Kristin are amazing!

Pomp & Ceremony: I've admired these designs for a long time and was thrilled to add this bowtie and pocket square to the project!

Also featuring #TheJustMarriedJacket!

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An understandable guide to Marriage Licences and Certificates in Ontario

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One of the most important things that you, the couple, need to do when you are getting married is to get your Marriage LICENCE. Once you have set the date for your wedding, you need to look at your calendar, and within the 90 days before your signing day, you and/or your partner will need to go and get a Marriage Licence. It does expire after 90 days so keep in mind if you are signing on a different day other than your wedding day, you don't want to get it too early.

Please note that it is the sole responsibility of you as a couple to acquire your Marriage Licence. You can check the website for the city that you live in, to find the location. Generally in smaller cities, you would go to City Hall. In larger cities, like Toronto there are four locations where there are Registry Offices. Currently in the city of Toronto, the fee is $140.00 (no tax)*

You are responsible for this document until you hand it over to your wedding Officiant on the day of your wedding. Be sure to bring all three pages which includes your instruction sheet, the page with your personal information and the final page with your Record of Solemnization at the bottom.

It is very important for you to realize that if this license is not at your wedding, you are not getting married until you can produce it. Plain and simple.

Directly after your ceremony is over, you will be handed a Record of Solemnization. This is a small piece of paper which will act as legal proof of marriage until you are able to request your marriage certificate. Think of your Record of Solemnization as a receipt of your marriage!

The Officiant will take the second page of your license with all of your personal information on it, and send that to the government. This process can take between 10-12 weeks, so be patient. You will not be informed when this information has been processed, you will simply need to wait out the time.

Marriage CERTIFICATE

Three months have passed, and it's now time for you to apply for your Marriage Certificate! This is a document that is used for proof of marriage in legal matters, such as passport applications, and immigration purposes.

You can request this online for either $15 (short) or $22 (long)*

Information provided by the province regarding Ontario Marriage Licenses are available here: https://www.ontario.ca/page/getting-married

*Disclaimer: At the time of this blog publishing, the fee amount and locations are current. Although this information is provided to you through this blog, please check the website for your city to obtain current information and fees. This is public information, and not legal advice.

Vintage Romance Styled Shoot Featured on EventSource!

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I want to start this post with a HUGE "thank you" to these very talented vendors!

Another "thank you" to EventSource for once again featuring Open Sky Weddings on the blog!

The seed that grew, started from a simple Facebook post, "I'm a florist and looking for the right team to do a styled shoot in February" - Annie @ May Flowers

Today I am full of joy as I get to share this project with you.

Click the button below for the full feature

 

Event Planner: Open Sky Weddings | Photographer: Sarah May, Photography | Venue: The Jam Factory | Wedding Cakes: Jenla Cake | Florist: May Flowers | Wedding Dress: The Bride's Project | Chalk Art: Vanessa Draws | Hair & Makeup: Be A Makeup Artist | Décor & Rentals: Event Rental Group | Custom Jewellery: Louisa LaBarbera Jewellery

Keep scrolling for a not-small collection of my personal favourites!

      

These cakes are much more than stunning beauty, they also taste amazing! Jenla Cake

 

We wanted to really maximize the use of this giant chalkboard wall, so we brought in the best! This entire piece was created on-site by hand! Check out Vanessa Draws incredible work.

Merchants of Green Coffee located just downstairs!

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Genevieve and Derya’s Intimate Wedding at The Gladstone

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This one really pulled at the heartstrings.I loved every moment of Genevieve and Derya's beautiful wedding day last summer at the warm Gladstone Hotel. They had so many personal touches!

I'll share a few of my favourites photos here, but be sure to check out the full story featured on Eventsource here!

 

 

Photographer: Daring Wanderer Venue: Gladstone Hotel Event Planner: Open Sky Weddings Wedding Dress: Becker's BridalOfficiant: Ceremonies With Choice Wedding Cake: The Cupcake Shoppe Florist: Ashton Creative Hair: Uno Jo Bridal HairMakeup: Blush x Balm Invitations & Stationery: Saman Design Inc.

 

 

 

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You’ll want to go to this beach wedding leagues beyond anything we’ve ever seen

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Each detail was inspired by the cool jewel tones and depth of the mysterious ocean. The bride wears a goddess style dress with a train like ocean foam. It is as if Aphrodite emerged from the surface, fully formed with hair in beach like curls.   A headpiece of seashells and jewels brings together the land and sea.

Stunning bold makeup highlights the glow of this beauty. Darker jewel toned eyes, with the soft colouring on her face, and a light touch of pearlescent on her cheeks makes her seem a little mysterious but incredibly stunning and breathtaking. Poseidon would be proud.

The Gothic inspired shoulder jewelry was custom designed to balance the bride’s remarkable ink on one arm, with the negative space on the other. It flows around her neck and down her shoulder just as the waves of the sea caress the shoreline. For a second look, the bride wore a sparkling statement necklace in cool blue tones to catch the light of the full moon as she danced the night away.

The luminescent place settings almost glow in the dark. This saturation is in contrast to the traditional wedding table elements. A bolder feel gives the space life and texture. Look closely at the table linens, their design chosen specifically to mimic the shapes of the coral that decorates the sea floor. The gold accent pieces and flatware add richness to the table; perhaps lost items strewn across the sea bed. Could they be from a merchant ship lost at sea?

The movement continues; custom made invitations and stationary with rich dark colours that pop!

The perfect venue; somewhere reminiscent of the days of ships with big billowing sails and ports with castles of rough stone and heavy wood. This converted old building, erected in 1871, known as Church of Berkeley located in Toronto, Ontario brought the perfect feel. No longer a Church, but now as an event venue with modern white, aged wooden beams and old uncovered brick, almost like where sea meets sand.

The flowers and arrangements capture the eye and feature the beauty of the ocean. A variety of lush, rich greens, purple thistles, soft succulents and exploding white anemones mimic the variety of texture of the deep unknown. Seriously, who knew a little reminiscent of kelp could be this gorgeous. (Well, we did!)

Tables set with bottles you could send a message in, SOS, but why would you ever want to leave this otherworldly, under-the-sea wedding? It’s mystic.

The vibe of this stylish wedding; swimming between fantasy and reality; the unreal and the, wow, so beautiful.

 

Photography:  Black Umbrella Photography     |     Creative Director and Planner:  Open Sky Weddings    |      Venue:  '1871' Berkeley Church, Toronto    |      Stationery:  Love Words Design    |      Florist:  Creations by Samantha    |      Hair, Make-Up and Headpiece:  Dark Light Makeup    |      Gown:  The Brides’ Project    |      Jewellery:  Louisa LaBarbara Jewellery    |      Linen and Napkin Rental:  Around the Table    |      Chair and Blue Goblet Rental:  Gervais Party Rental     |     Model:  Madelaine Tisdelle

 

A piece of my story...

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Photography credit: Black Umbrella Photography

As I think back on all the opportunities I have been fortunate enough to have, I am grateful to have landed in a place where I feel passionately about what I do. Ballerina, Teacher, Camp Counselor, Interior Designer, Theatre Props/Set Designer, Travel Agent… and finally Wedding Planner.

Growing up, my parents really encouraged me to follow my heart. #millennialgoals, am I right?

 

Fast forward to my life in Toronto.

I have been involved in the wedding industry for some time, working in and around businesses that are involved with events, weddings, and wedding planning.

I have been volunteering at The Brides’ Project in Toronto for a remarkable and life-changing 4 ½ years. Helping Brides pick out their wedding dress, from many previously loved and donated dresses. You can find more information about The Brides Project here: http://thebridesproject.com/

I don’t like to do things traditionally. I like to break the rules sometimes. So when I bought my wedding dress from The Brides’ Project 2 years before I was engaged, my then-boyfriend, now-husband hardly blinked an eye. “If you love it and want to get married in that dress, then you should get it.”

Fine print: Your SO may not react the same way… this isn’t necessarily something I encourage.

 

I found the love of my life in the most unexpected place, in the most unexpected way. Every day, Mike encourages me to follow my dreams, gives me strength to go out on a limb and try something new. I am so fortunate to have Mike support me in everything that I do, including Open Sky Weddings.  

 

And, here I am.  Open Sky Weddings. Specializing in intimate weddings that share who you are as a couple.